Manhood And Purpose Programme

The Man I Choose to Be

A PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT PROGRAMME FOR MEN

The MENSCAPE Manhood And Purpose Programme (MAPP) is a structured, 16-session programme that helps men aged 21 and over understand who they are, manage themselves, take responsibility for their behaviour, treat others with respect, and build a life with direction and purpose.

MAPP draws on MENSCAPE's male-focused therapy and coaching, and on the principles behind our Domestic Abuse Perpetrator Programme (DAPP) and Fatherhood and Parenting Programme (FAPP). It provides a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space for men to reflect honestly and make lasting changes.

MAPP is currently delivered as 1:1 sessions, online or face to face. A MAPP group programme is coming soon.

One question runs through the whole programme: "What kind of man do I choose to be?"

WHAT DOES MAPP COVER?

MAPP moves through eight core areas over 16 one-hour sessions:

1. Self-Awareness and Manhood

  • Session 1: The Man I Want to Be

  • Session 2: Manhood and Masculinity: What Kind of Man?

2. Faith, Culture, Community and Belonging

  • Session 3: Who Am I? Faith, Culture, Community and Belonging

3. Values, Integrity and Self-Respect

  • Session 4: My Values and Moral Compass

  • Session 5: Self-Respect and Dignity

4. Emotional Regulation

  • Session 6: Emotions Beyond Anger

  • Session 7: Knowing My Triggers and Taking the Pause

5. Responsibility and Accountability

  • Session 8: Excuses, Explanations and Ownership

  • Session 9: Impact and Repair

6. Women, Sex and Healthy Relationships

  • Session 10: Respecting Women

  • Session 11: Sex, Sexuality and Consent

  • Session 12: Healthy Relationships: Dignity, Equality and Power

7. Maturity and Role Modelling

  • Session 13: Mature Manhood, Fatherhood and Role Modelling

8. Right Action, Purpose and Discipline

  • Session 14: Moral Dilemmas and Right Action

  • Session 15: Purpose, Direction, Career and Goals

  • Session 16: Discipline and the Man I Choose to Keep Becoming

Every session includes a moral or ethical dilemma to work through, and a practical task to try during the week. Over the 16 weeks, each man builds his own Personal Plan for the man he wants to become.

HOW MAPP WORKS

Initial assessment: individual assessment before starting

Programme: 16 weekly sessions

Session length: 1 hour

Delivery: 1:1 online, or as an online group

Reviews: midway review after Session 8, and a final review

Completion: Certificate and Final Review Report

WHO IS MAPP FOR?

MAPP is for men aged 21 and over who want to:

  • Understand where their ideas about being a man came from.

  • Manage anger, stress and pressure more effectively.

  • Take responsibility for their behaviour.

  • Build healthier, more respectful relationships.

  • Be a better partner, father or role model.

  • Find direction, purpose and career goals.

  • Make lasting changes in their lives.

WHAT DOES MAPP AIM TO SUPPORT?

MAPP aims to help men develop:

  • A healthy, chosen sense of manhood and masculinity.

  • Clear values, integrity and self-respect.

  • A stronger sense of identity, belonging and support.

  • Greater emotional awareness and self-control.

  • Real accountability for their behaviour and its impact.

  • Respect for women, an understanding of consent, and healthy relationships.

  • Maturity and positive role modelling.

  • Ethical decision-making, purpose, goals and discipline.

Individual outcomes will vary according to each man's circumstances, engagement and needs.

IMPORTANT: MAPP AND DOMESTIC ABUSE WORK

MAPP is a personal development programme. It is not a Domestic Abuse Perpetrator Programme (DAPP), and it is not a sexual offending treatment programme.

Where domestic abuse or harmful behaviour within a relationship is the main concern, MENSCAPE will consider whether the MENSCAPE DAPP or another specialist intervention is more appropriate. Completion of MAPP does not, in itself, show that risk has been reduced.

PROFESSIONAL AND SELF-REFERRALS

Referrals and enquiries are welcomed from:

  • Men themselves.

  • Early Help and Family Hubs.

  • Children's Social Care.

  • Probation and youth justice services.

  • GPs and mental health services.

  • Employers.

  • Faith and community groups.

  • Voluntary and community organisations.

FEES

1:1 MAPP PROGRAMME

Initial Assessment: £95

16 individual sessions: £1,265

Total programme cost: £1,360

WHY 1:1?

MAPP is delivered one-to-one, so that you have:

  • Privacy to talk openly about difficult topics.

  • Sessions tailored to your life, relationships and goals.

  • More time to explore what matters most to you.

  • A programme that moves at your own pace.

MAPP GROUP PROGRAMME: COMING SOON

We are developing a MAPP group programme for men who would like to learn alongside other men, with shared discussion and a supportive, male-focused group environment. If you're interested, let us know when you get in touch and we'll contact you when places open.

COMMISSIONED REFERRALS

Commissioned 1:1 MAPP: £1,750

For referrals commissioned by Children's Services, probation or other agencies. Includes the initial assessment, 16 sessions, liaison with the referring professional, a midway review and a written Final Review Report. Any additional professional work is agreed with the commissioner in advance.

FLEXIBLE PAYMENT OPTIONS

The initial assessment fee is payable up front. The remaining balance can be paid:

  • In full before the programme starts

  • In 2 instalments: £632.50 (at the start and after Session 8)

  • In 4 instalments every 4 weeks: £316

TAKE THE NEXT STEP

The first step is to contact MENSCAPE. We'll talk through your circumstances, what you'd like help with, and which option suits you best.

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