Manhood And Purpose Programme
The Man I Choose to Be
A PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT PROGRAMME FOR MEN
The MENSCAPE Manhood And Purpose Programme (MAPP) is a structured, 16-session programme that helps men aged 21 and over understand who they are, manage themselves, take responsibility for their behaviour, treat others with respect, and build a life with direction and purpose.
MAPP draws on MENSCAPE's male-focused therapy and coaching, and on the principles behind our Domestic Abuse Perpetrator Programme (DAPP) and Fatherhood and Parenting Programme (FAPP). It provides a safe, confidential and non-judgemental space for men to reflect honestly and make lasting changes.
MAPP is currently delivered as 1:1 sessions, online or face to face. A MAPP group programme is coming soon.
One question runs through the whole programme: "What kind of man do I choose to be?"
WHAT DOES MAPP COVER?
MAPP moves through eight core areas over 16 one-hour sessions:
1. Self-Awareness and Manhood
Session 1: The Man I Want to Be
Session 2: Manhood and Masculinity: What Kind of Man?
2. Faith, Culture, Community and Belonging
Session 3: Who Am I? Faith, Culture, Community and Belonging
3. Values, Integrity and Self-Respect
Session 4: My Values and Moral Compass
Session 5: Self-Respect and Dignity
4. Emotional Regulation
Session 6: Emotions Beyond Anger
Session 7: Knowing My Triggers and Taking the Pause
5. Responsibility and Accountability
Session 8: Excuses, Explanations and Ownership
Session 9: Impact and Repair
6. Women, Sex and Healthy Relationships
Session 10: Respecting Women
Session 11: Sex, Sexuality and Consent
Session 12: Healthy Relationships: Dignity, Equality and Power
7. Maturity and Role Modelling
Session 13: Mature Manhood, Fatherhood and Role Modelling
8. Right Action, Purpose and Discipline
Session 14: Moral Dilemmas and Right Action
Session 15: Purpose, Direction, Career and Goals
Session 16: Discipline and the Man I Choose to Keep Becoming
Every session includes a moral or ethical dilemma to work through, and a practical task to try during the week. Over the 16 weeks, each man builds his own Personal Plan for the man he wants to become.
HOW MAPP WORKS
Initial assessment: individual assessment before starting
Programme: 16 weekly sessions
Session length: 1 hour
Delivery: 1:1 online, or as an online group
Reviews: midway review after Session 8, and a final review
Completion: Certificate and Final Review Report
WHO IS MAPP FOR?
MAPP is for men aged 21 and over who want to:
Understand where their ideas about being a man came from.
Manage anger, stress and pressure more effectively.
Take responsibility for their behaviour.
Build healthier, more respectful relationships.
Be a better partner, father or role model.
Find direction, purpose and career goals.
Make lasting changes in their lives.
WHAT DOES MAPP AIM TO SUPPORT?
MAPP aims to help men develop:
A healthy, chosen sense of manhood and masculinity.
Clear values, integrity and self-respect.
A stronger sense of identity, belonging and support.
Greater emotional awareness and self-control.
Real accountability for their behaviour and its impact.
Respect for women, an understanding of consent, and healthy relationships.
Maturity and positive role modelling.
Ethical decision-making, purpose, goals and discipline.
Individual outcomes will vary according to each man's circumstances, engagement and needs.
IMPORTANT: MAPP AND DOMESTIC ABUSE WORK
MAPP is a personal development programme. It is not a Domestic Abuse Perpetrator Programme (DAPP), and it is not a sexual offending treatment programme.
Where domestic abuse or harmful behaviour within a relationship is the main concern, MENSCAPE will consider whether the MENSCAPE DAPP or another specialist intervention is more appropriate. Completion of MAPP does not, in itself, show that risk has been reduced.
PROFESSIONAL AND SELF-REFERRALS
Referrals and enquiries are welcomed from:
Men themselves.
Early Help and Family Hubs.
Children's Social Care.
Probation and youth justice services.
GPs and mental health services.
Employers.
Faith and community groups.
Voluntary and community organisations.
FEES
1:1 MAPP PROGRAMME
Initial Assessment: £95
16 individual sessions: £1,265
Total programme cost: £1,360
WHY 1:1?
MAPP is delivered one-to-one, so that you have:
Privacy to talk openly about difficult topics.
Sessions tailored to your life, relationships and goals.
More time to explore what matters most to you.
A programme that moves at your own pace.
MAPP GROUP PROGRAMME: COMING SOON
We are developing a MAPP group programme for men who would like to learn alongside other men, with shared discussion and a supportive, male-focused group environment. If you're interested, let us know when you get in touch and we'll contact you when places open.
COMMISSIONED REFERRALS
Commissioned 1:1 MAPP: £1,750
For referrals commissioned by Children's Services, probation or other agencies. Includes the initial assessment, 16 sessions, liaison with the referring professional, a midway review and a written Final Review Report. Any additional professional work is agreed with the commissioner in advance.
FLEXIBLE PAYMENT OPTIONS
The initial assessment fee is payable up front. The remaining balance can be paid:
In full before the programme starts
In 2 instalments: £632.50 (at the start and after Session 8)
In 4 instalments every 4 weeks: £316
TAKE THE NEXT STEP
The first step is to contact MENSCAPE. We'll talk through your circumstances, what you'd like help with, and which option suits you best.
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